When you say the word “Advent,” what immediately pops into mind? A feast of color, a
traditional manger scene bathed in soft candlelight, glistening snowflakes falling on festive trees,
a yearning for the One who is to come.

But sometimes, the season brings other images: crowded stores, treats that tempt us to too
many calories, limitless to-do and to-buy lists. Yet in the back of our minds, we hear the call to
conversion. Christ is calling us to be good stewards of all that we have and all that we are. How
can we keep Advent in such a way that it is a time to focus on the fundamentals of stewardship;
of spiritual growth and preparation for the coming of Jesus Christ? Here are a few suggestions,
not meant to be another to-do list, but rather a way to remind ourselves daily of our call to
prepare a way for the Lord in our lives.

1. Begin the season with a list to prioritize what you really want spiritually, and in relation to
friends and family, from Advent. Discard all the “extras” and the fantasy of the perfect
Hallmark Christmas. List clear goals that bring growth and peace and quality time.

2. Take time to read the daily readings each day of Advent. The beautiful words of Isaiah
are guaranteed to inspire, and the commitment will guarantee you a bit of quiet and
reflective time.

3. Do you send Christmas cards? Even if they are the standard signature only or newsletter
variety, try to personalize one a day, writing a nice note to an elderly relative or a friend
you haven’t seen in a long time.

4. Embrace the Sacrament of Reconciliation. This will encourage you to reflect on your life,
your gifts and where you fail to utilize them for the good of others. It’s a beautiful
preparation for the coming of Jesus and the beginning of a new year.

5. Pray for patience. As you drive over icy streets or navigate through a crowded store, take
time to pray for those around you and for those who struggle with much less. Become
aware of people around you and lift them in prayer rather than see them as obstacles to
your goals.

6. In the midst of a season of abundance, do not forget the poor in your community.